Sam - here is a note from another newcomer to this site and a first-time bowhunter.

It is not what gets shot in the field or how long or short the yardage.  How you conduct yourself before, during, and after the hunt is what makes you a Man or Woman of integrity.

I got started in this long strange trip by some Kansas rifle hunters who embody this integrity in all areas of life.  I have been encouraged by all types of hunters - rifle, blackpowder, wheelies, and trads.  The "hunterz" who are less encouraging seem to fit your description of those seeking to be Manly Men.

Keep your eyes open and your wits sharp and you'll learn and live better than most.  This was my advice to my 18 yr-old son when he signed up for the Navy Reserve.  My prayer is that he and i both keep to it.