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Title: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: FBB on November 01, 2012, 07:37:00 PM
My brother and I are leaving Saturday for Missouri but I had my German Shorthair put down today after having him for over 16 years. So to say the least I have mixed emotions and would rather stay here at home. Not sure if I'm going to be into the hunt but we're leaving anyway.
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: JDunlap on November 01, 2012, 07:42:00 PM
Sorry to hear it. Very difficult to deal with. Hope you are able to heal up some in the woods.
JD
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: ermont on November 01, 2012, 07:46:00 PM
We had to put our dog down recently. I know it's tough. She was a really good dog. You just have to remember if you had to put her down, it was for the best. It's no life for them to suffer.
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Sam McMichael on November 01, 2012, 08:53:00 PM
I am sorry to hear about it. I got a puppy when I was 5 years old. She died when I was 18, and I cried like a baby. I still fondly think about that dog (I'm 63 now), and before long, when you think of your dog, it will be to remember the fun he brought you rather than the pain of loss you feel now. Go on your hunt and remember the human heart can embrace pain on one hand and still appreciate joy on the other.
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Post by: Joeabowhunter on November 01, 2012, 08:56:00 PM
Sorry for your loss.  Dog lovers understand how hard of a time it really is.
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: FBB on November 01, 2012, 09:10:00 PM
Thank you everyone. I know some day I will smile when I think of him instead of cry but that day seems to be far off right now.
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Matty on November 01, 2012, 09:18:00 PM
Going on that trip might be just the thing you need.  Being down and feeling down.  Will keep you down.  Get something positive going. And stay in that mode.  We are all very sorry for your loss. It's never, ever easy. You still have those great memories. They arent going anywhere. Pick it up buddy!! Go do something fun.
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: YORNOC on November 01, 2012, 09:24:00 PM
Sitting around won't help you. Go hunt, and think of all the good times with your dog.Smell the smells for him, look at all the sights for him, and thank him for all those cherished years.Notice everything, just as he would. What better way to honor him than be out there thinking of him!
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Wheels2 on November 01, 2012, 09:46:00 PM
Hunt as if he was with you....
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Joe Subler on November 01, 2012, 09:47:00 PM
my German Shorthair is 13 and is showing his age so I know that day will be coming.  My last German Shorthair was at 16 when we had to pur her down but it was for the best.  I have had to put down other companions over the years and it never gets any easier.  Keep him in good thoughts and you will get through this eventually.  It is true that time does heal.

Joe
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Post by: Canyon on November 01, 2012, 09:48:00 PM
Sorry to hear it. Take that fine dog along with you in your memories and do not hold the emotions back.
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Post by: Canyon on November 01, 2012, 09:50:00 PM
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Post by: njloco on November 01, 2012, 09:58:00 PM
It really cuts deep when they go, after all they do become a major part of the family, they''re like.a kid that never grows up. I am sure you have many memories of all the stuff he got himself into, and that is what you have to concentrate on now.

Go hunting, he would want that.
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Sixgun on November 01, 2012, 10:12:00 PM
My condolences on the loss of your dog. I was heartbroken when mine passed. Time is making it better. I'm positive it will be the same for you.

Ray
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Paul/KS on November 01, 2012, 10:15:00 PM
It is always hard to lose a dog and 16 years is a good run for a shorthair. Hunt in Mo. with your memories of him in the field.
I had to put down my golden retriever at 16+ years this year so I know how tough this can be....
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Bjorn on November 01, 2012, 11:05:00 PM
My condolences on losing a family member. Your dog would want you to go and have the best hunt you can. Love the memory and go hunt!
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Post by: David Yukon on November 01, 2012, 11:21:00 PM
Make the trip for him!!
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Post by: Missouri CK on November 01, 2012, 11:42:00 PM
David,

Says a lot about the type of person you are.  I'm not sure I can trust someone who doesn't like dogs  :)

If we didn't feel pain at the loss of their company than they didn't mean much to us after all.  I would say the pain you have now is a wonderful indicator of the quality of relationship you had.  As difficult as it is to pick yourself and have fun I do believe it's the right thing to do.

What is the old saying about "do not cry for me as I am not here...I am the wind...I am the sun on your back.  

You were fortunate to have your companion for that long.  Savor those memories and realize how lucky you were. Great dogs add to our lives.

Thoughts are with you.

Chris

P.S. Where in Missouri are you headed?
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Panzer on November 02, 2012, 08:51:00 AM
Sorry for your loss. My next dog will be a GSP.
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: FBB on November 02, 2012, 09:21:00 AM
Those Shorthair's can get to you... if they don't drive you crazy first.Thank you everyone. Dave
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: German Dog on November 02, 2012, 10:35:00 AM
QuoteOriginally posted by Matty:
Going on that trip might be just the thing you need.  Being down and feeling down.  Will keep you down.  Get something positive going. And stay in that mode.  We are all very sorry for your loss. It's never, ever easy. You still have those great memories. They arent going anywhere. Pick it up buddy!! Go do something fun.
Well said.  Again sorry to hear your loss, those pups really are special. Here's a quote form a guy on a bird hunting forum posted when one of my wirehairs passed on.    

"The sorrow we feel with the death of our canine companions is the ultimate price we pay for all the wonderful joy they brought to our lives every day of their existence....and all the heart warming memories that will be with us for our existence."    UplandGuide
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Tom Leemans on November 02, 2012, 10:38:00 AM
Boy do we all know that feeling.   :(  It'll give you some memories to run through your head while on stand.  :)
Title: Re: Leaving Saturday With Mixed Feelings
Post by: Nook on November 02, 2012, 11:13:00 AM
Sorry for the loss of your family member.  It's hard, but you gave him a great life.  The last German shorthair I saw was at PetSmart a couple of weeks ago.  He was on point.  Had those parakets nailed....  Instincts are great.