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Title: A very heartfelt thanks to all you guys.
Post by: koger on September 15, 2012, 02:23:00 AM
As most of you know, from a recent post of mine, my father has been critically ill for some time, cancelled my bear hunt to Hunters Point next week, to stay home and spend time with him while he was still here. Dad passsed away peacefully early this morning, ending several years of struggling with several diseases, all life threatening each one by themselves. The various illness had taken a terrible toll on his mental faculty's the last year, and made taking care of him and often dealing with him harder. I want to thank you all for your kind words, prayers and help, especially you Bill Carlsen. You guys are like a second family, as I have no siblings. Terry you and I had spoken via PM's briefly once or twice, about your fathers health and issues, man if you ever need anyone to talk to about this, I am a phone call a way. It is awful to see someone you love so much, not be able to remember key parts of our lives together, to get angry when you work hard to take care of them, for no reason, as reason doesnt apply. I am so thankful that Dad doesnt have to suffer any more, and that he passed peacefully in his sleep. Keep us in your prayers and thoughts guys, faith makes everything possible, but not often easy. I love you guys.
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Post by: JAG on September 15, 2012, 02:37:00 AM
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An arrow of prayer winging it's way to the Great Spirit.
Lost my dd several years ago.  It's tough.
Johnny/JAG
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Post by: JEFF B on September 15, 2012, 05:09:00 AM
hey sam aim so sorry to hear your sad news God Bless and prayers from me to you and yours. as time goes by the pain will lessen   :pray:    :pray:
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Post by: 2treks on September 15, 2012, 05:14:00 AM
I am sorry for your Loss Sam. You are a great guy for doing your part. May God be with you during this time.
CTT
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Post by: americanhunter7 on September 15, 2012, 05:18:00 AM
Sorry to hear of the loss Sam. I'll be thinking of you and your family and keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.  :pray:
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Post by: Izzy on September 15, 2012, 06:12:00 AM
Sorry for your loss.
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Post by: NEB on September 15, 2012, 06:22:00 AM
Sorry for your loss; I admire your love and faith. Your dad would be proud of the man you are.
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Post by: kennyb on September 15, 2012, 06:40:00 AM
Sam-sorry about the passing of your father. My prayers go to you and your family. Godspeed to ya'

Kenny    :pray:
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Post by: turkey522 on September 15, 2012, 07:39:00 AM
My father passed three weeks ago,no what your going thur.Prayers sent for family and you  Koger.
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Post by: ronp on September 15, 2012, 07:48:00 AM
Prayers sent.  Very sorry for your loss.
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Post by: Mike Manassa on September 15, 2012, 07:50:00 AM
Sorry for you loss Sam.May your father rest in peace...Mike
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Post by: bornagainbowhunter on September 15, 2012, 07:56:00 AM
Sam, I am sorry to hear of your loss.  I will pray for your family.  God will comfort you, look to His wisdom.

God Bless,
Nathan
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Post by: BrownA5 on September 15, 2012, 08:18:00 AM
Sam, sorry for the loss of your father!  My prayers are with you and your family as you go though this time.  You made the right choice being there for him!

Dan
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Post by: Dry Creek on September 15, 2012, 08:23:00 AM
Sorry for your loss, take peace in knowing that he is not suffering anymore.
Praying for you!

God Bless
Craig
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Post by: Cyclic-Rivers on September 15, 2012, 08:25:00 AM
Sam

Sorry for your loss. I will continue to pray for you and your family.
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Post by: magnus on September 15, 2012, 08:26:00 AM
Sam you are in our thought and prayers! Went thru a similar situation with my Pa. God Bless you for being with him. I didn't have that chance.  May God bring you and your family peace. If you ever need to talk I'm here!
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Post by: david janssen on September 15, 2012, 08:28:00 AM
Praying for your family.
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Post by: Jim Jackson on September 15, 2012, 08:35:00 AM
Sam,

My condolences on your loss.  You'll be in our thoughts and prayers.
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Post by: Mudd on September 15, 2012, 08:51:00 AM
God's grace,peace,and love.

I'm sorry for your loss.

God bless,Mudd
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Post by: NoCams on September 15, 2012, 08:53:00 AM
Sam,
Headed to my family reunion as I type this. Will make me stop, think, and treasure the time we spend today even more. We will pray for healing for you today, so sorry for your loss. As time passes and the wound heals think about the good times you spent with your Dad. Been 3 years now since the loss of my father-in-law and as painful as it was then I think of him often and it is always the good things and the good times that come flooding back. He was the one who taught me how to deer hunt and what good memories those are. What a ride it was !!! God Bless you Today Sam !!!  :pray:    :pray:    :pray:
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Post by: MD on September 15, 2012, 08:57:00 AM
Sorry to hear about your loss.  I am sure he is in a better place and thanking you for your love and care
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Post by: Bud B. on September 15, 2012, 09:13:00 AM
My most sincere condolences.

I share your experience having lost a loved one, in my case it was about three years before they actually passed on. Trying to care for them and remembering their life as it was before the illness helped, but still did not ease the loss once it came. It's heartbreaking indeed, but the care you gave showed the meaning of true unconditional love.

Peace has come and will come. I pray strength and ease of emotional pain to you and your family.
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Post by: Ragin Bull on September 15, 2012, 09:19:00 AM
Sam,

So very sorry for your loss.
You are in our thoughts and prayers
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Post by: wooddamon1 on September 15, 2012, 09:29:00 AM
Sorry for your loss.
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Post by: twitchstick on September 15, 2012, 09:36:00 AM
Sorry for you loss. You are in our prayers and thoughts.
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Post by: Tradcat on September 15, 2012, 09:58:00 AM
My God knows what it's like to loose a loved one...but HE is the resurrection and the life ! May the Lord see you through this storm and may he comfort you and your family during this time. Phil. 4:13
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Post by: kybowhunter2 on September 15, 2012, 11:08:00 AM
I have lost many loved ones but never a mother of father. Its hard and was closer to some than others. My gradmother passed years ago and I still miss her today more than ever. She loved me so much and I did the same. Time will heal you. Remember that God loves you and call upon him in times you need him. I will pray for you and your family. I pray you will be blessed for the things you done for him before his passing.God Bless.

Travis from KY.
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Post by: varmint101 on September 15, 2012, 11:51:00 AM
So sorry for your loss, Sam, but grateful he left peacefully.  Take care and God bless.
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Post by: Marc B. on September 15, 2012, 12:16:00 PM
I'm sorry for the loss of your father.
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Post by: Leland on September 15, 2012, 01:04:00 PM
Sorry for your loss,time and memories will help your heart to heal.
Leland
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Post by: Bill Carlsen on September 15, 2012, 01:44:00 PM
Sam...you know how I feel so I'll skip some of what I have already said to  you. I think you will find that as you grieve various family members will take turns being strong, then sad. If your dad lived a good life then it wasn't in vain. The really sad deaths are of those whose lives held little meaning or value. Sounds like your dad's life was not a wasted one.
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Post by: Son of Texas on September 15, 2012, 01:53:00 PM
Sorry for your lose,Prayers for you and your family.
God Bless.
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Post by: smokin joe on September 15, 2012, 02:07:00 PM
Sam,
Sending a prayer your way.
God bless.
Joe
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Post by: Soonerlongbow on September 15, 2012, 02:13:00 PM
May he rest peacefully and you and your family be comforted by his reception into heaven.
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Post by: elkken on September 15, 2012, 02:34:00 PM
Sorry for you loss ..    :pray:
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Post by: swamper on September 15, 2012, 03:08:00 PM
sorry for your loss...joe
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Post by: stringstretcher on September 15, 2012, 03:12:00 PM
Sorry for your loss Sam
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Post by: wtpops on September 15, 2012, 04:49:00 PM
You and your family are in our prayers.

Just know that as time goes on the heart ache and painful memories will fade and be replaced with the happy ones. You'll be doing something and a sound or smell our something you see will remind you of him and you will smile. I pray the the time of painful memories is short and the smile memories come soon. God bless you and you family.
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Post by: Killdeer on September 15, 2012, 05:02:00 PM
Going through this myself,and I think the biggest lesson is Patience. When I find that my Patience capacity has increased, It makes me think of the vast quantity that the Creator must have as He watches our daily inanities. I value every conversation that I ever had with my dad, even the annoying ones.

Killdeer
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Post by: happy1 on September 15, 2012, 05:07:00 PM
Sorry for your loss.  I lost my dad last Nov. I know how you feel.
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Post by: JamesKerr on September 15, 2012, 05:18:00 PM
Sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.  :pray:
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Post by: koger on September 15, 2012, 05:25:00 PM
Guys dad was a Christian, for most of his life, and was ready to go, looked forward to leaving pain and misery behing. I am actually relieved for him, though I miss him, and no one wants to see a parent pass, this is life. My wife and I lost our 19 year old son, Reuben, 10 years ago, and that is the hardest thing any human being will ever have to face. We have survived only thru Gods help, and friends and family, who have been there. We still work thru this day by day, and though you never get over losing a child, you get better at dealing with it. A lot of folks in our community, some we knew, some we did not, came forward and related to us, counseled us, and made life bearable. We try to pay it forward by doing the same thing for people who have lost a child. Again, you guys are great, and thanks for all  your concern.
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Post by: KentuckyTJ on September 15, 2012, 09:10:00 PM
Sam, I spent part of the day with my ol' Dad today. He is late in life and whithering as well. My  prayers are with you Brother.

TJ
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Post by: Air Cleaver on September 15, 2012, 09:19:00 PM
My condolences! Sorry for your losses. Those are major crosses to bear.
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Post by: huntingarcher on September 16, 2012, 12:52:00 AM
Sorry for your loss.  :pray:
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Post by: rdoggsilva on September 16, 2012, 02:07:00 AM
Sorry for your loss. know how you fill, lost my wife of 44 years  in Aug. Prays go with you.
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Post by: ishoot4thrills on September 16, 2012, 06:24:00 AM
Very sorry for you and your loss.

I understand how it is. I lost both of my parents in '09 and they were in their mid 60s. First mom died of brain cancer and then my dad passed away just 7 weeks later of a heart attack. Very tough year that year.

My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Post by: cahaba on September 16, 2012, 09:09:00 AM
So sorry for your loss. Prayers sent.
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Post by: SS Snuffer on September 16, 2012, 05:41:00 PM
Been there
sorry for your loss
peace be with you
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Post by: Sam McMichael on September 16, 2012, 08:05:00 PM
Koger, I understand your loss as I lost my dad in 1977. As time passes the grief also passes, but just remember this - we grieve deeply because we care deeply.  Over time, you will have thoughts of him creep into your mind at most unexpected times causing you to remember how important he has been, and always will be, to you. As you stated, he was a Christian man, so he is now completely happy. God's peace will come to you, also.