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Title: Temper Tantrum
Post by: Keith Langford on July 29, 2012, 05:16:00 PM
I saw something Friday morning at denton I could not believe, a man and his wife in their mid 50's were at the practice range and the man had quickly shot 2 arrows, in the 10 ring and his wife lets hers fly, bingo, a robin hood, well the man starts cussing his wife like a sailer, I could not believe it, she made a great shot and he's acting like a idiot, she never said a word, but she never shot another arrow, how sad
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Post by: fmscan on July 29, 2012, 05:24:00 PM
I feel for the lady .... the right thing to do would be to high five her... also kids are around and that is a terrible example.
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Post by: Rick Butler on July 29, 2012, 05:26:00 PM
Sounds like he got his ego bruised and could'nt handle it.  I agree, should have been high fives and hugs.
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Post by: Keefer on July 29, 2012, 05:28:00 PM
Show's he's defintly is an Idiot to talk to his wife like that but not all "real men" treat thier wives like that..Did you say anything to him about the way he treated her?  For evil to prevail is for good men to do nothing!
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Post by: A.S. on July 29, 2012, 05:32:00 PM
What a shame Keith.....by the way, where were you hiding all weekend?  We kept an eye out for you....lots of people there though!
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Post by: gringol on July 29, 2012, 05:33:00 PM
If he does that in public, I hate to imagine what he does in private.  Sounds like a real a-hole.
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Post by: ishoot4thrills on July 29, 2012, 05:36:00 PM
I can't believe it either. He should've slapped the #$!%&?* outta her instead! The nerve of that woman, ruining an expensive arrow like that. Jeez!   :biglaugh:    :archer2:

No really, like you said, that's pretty dang sad of him acting like that.   "[dntthnk]"
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Post by: Arwin on July 29, 2012, 05:36:00 PM
I would give anything just to have my wife take an interest in archery!

What a turd, he has no idea how lucky he is.....
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Post by: kybowhunter2 on July 29, 2012, 05:59:00 PM
Thats one thing I cant stand. I would have had to said somthin to the guy or if no kids were around beat his ears off. Then see if he would talk to me like he did his wife. We try to hit arrows when we go. Thats a shame. My wife would have shot me if I would have pulled a stunt like that.LOL
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Post by: kybowhunter2 on July 29, 2012, 06:01:00 PM
QuoteOriginally posted by Arwin:
I would give anything just to have my wife take an interest in archery!

What a turd, he has no idea how lucky he is.....
A turd is right.
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Post by: centaur on July 29, 2012, 06:06:00 PM
With a capital "T".   :mad:
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Post by: Bjorn on July 29, 2012, 06:08:00 PM
Maybe no idea how lucky he used to be? Sad indeed.
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Post by: Chumster on July 29, 2012, 06:12:00 PM
Something tells me, it probably wasn't the first time. Sad!!!
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Post by: Craig Schoneberg on July 29, 2012, 06:13:00 PM
Wow! That is very sad indeed.
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Post by: Bud B. on July 29, 2012, 06:40:00 PM
QuoteOriginally posted by Arwin:
I would give anything just to have my wife take an interest in archery!

Amen!!

I'd love for my wife to Robin Hood any of my arrows.
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Post by: double eagle on July 29, 2012, 06:52:00 PM
I bet his arrows are longer than her's.  You know arrow envy  :)   He really needs a wake up call on taking archery so serious.  I'd hate to see him coach youths.  She won't have to put up long with his crap, he'll have a stroke if he flips over something like this.
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Post by: Rick Richard on July 29, 2012, 06:59:00 PM
She will eventually wise up and dump his sorry a$$ like she should do.
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Post by: Killdeer on July 29, 2012, 07:08:00 PM
Capital T?
Nope. Strictly small case.

Killdeer   "[dntthnk]"    :(
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Post by: SKITCH on July 29, 2012, 07:33:00 PM
Hopefully she did it on purpose....and will continue to do it..  ;)    :D  

Maybe he just does not know how good she really is!!

Pretty sad.
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Post by: Turkhunter on July 29, 2012, 07:54:00 PM
Sounds like he needed the crap slapped out of him and then make him apologize to his wife. Unfortunatly, as others have said it probably wasnt the first time something like that had happed and she would have caught the worst of it when they got home. He dont know how lucky he is to have a wife who will shoot with him and share his interests. I hope he is on this forum and reads these posts and it shames him to no end.
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Post by: Roger Norris on July 29, 2012, 08:37:00 PM
What a jerk.
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Post by: JMR on July 29, 2012, 08:40:00 PM
Very sad. Unfortunately if you had said something she probably would have faced worse in private. He will get what he has coming someday. Amen to the couples that shoot together and enjoy just flinging arrows.
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Post by: Suty on July 29, 2012, 08:50:00 PM
Hope she does it again.... Only with a blunt , and between his eyes.... Oooops, didn't me to advocate violence... I'm  sure with his attitude he has been handing out for years to her. My wife's ex was one of those guys... How sad. I guess there Mommies didn't play with them enough growing up.
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Post by: The Whittler on July 29, 2012, 09:01:00 PM
If you would of said something he probably have started an arguement, and you know what they say about arguing with an idiot. Some people will never get it.

When my wife shot she use to bring home the trophies not me lol. I loved it could not have been more proud.
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Post by: gregg dudley on July 29, 2012, 09:10:00 PM
QuoteOriginally posted by Rick Richard:
She will eventually wise up and dump his sorry a$$ like she should do.
Sad thing is she probably is used to being treated like that.  If you had said something about it there is a better than even chance that she would have defended him.  I've dealt with that...
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Post by: Sam McMichael on July 29, 2012, 09:21:00 PM
He must be a member of the family I saw in a cartoon, the Ass family. One was named Wise, one was named Smart. He must be the one named Dumb.

He ought to congratulate her on a fine shot and be very thankful she has been willing to share this sport with him. Maybe she needs to find somebody a little more deserving to shoot with.
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Post by: L. Harris on July 29, 2012, 10:54:00 PM
Well, I'm late as usual and everything has already been said! I would give anything in the world to have a wife that would be beside me to enjoy flining arrows together, and you can bet if she robin hooded one of mine, it would go on the wall as a trophy!!!
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Post by: GRINCH on July 29, 2012, 11:08:00 PM
I feel for her,hopefully she will wise up and realize there are better men out there.
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Post by: huskyarcher on July 29, 2012, 11:12:00 PM
Dang i didnt realize i was being watched.....


Nah, on a serious note my GF busted my nock today...On purpose...i found it hysterical!
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Post by: Roadkill on July 29, 2012, 11:17:00 PM
I probably would had conrtulated her and asked if she could do it agian for a camera.  Of course she have said she could never do iit again. Thenwinked at the jerk

Or offered to pay for the arrows.  Just to show him that it was an acident
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Post by: Roadkill on July 29, 2012, 11:25:00 PM
I work in an airport and see this kind of crap often, mostly between parents and kids. , we often let it go, but when it is abusive i step in and get everyone's attention some place else with humor.  The other passenngers tell us thanks.  They wanted to to do something but couldnot.  That wink i posted often makes jerks just slouch out as they find out othets are watching with interest.  Nobody deserves to be treatec with such disrespect
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Post by: moththerlode on July 30, 2012, 01:52:00 AM
That would be a whole lot better than the countless bouts of poison oak I've gotten from hunting down my wifes arrows. I gotta admit I've might of thrown a tantrum or two before diving into a see of poison oak or Black Berry bushes for the 20th time before 10 am
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Post by: DWilhelm on July 30, 2012, 06:16:00 AM
Just think how good of a shot she could be if she had a little positive reinforcement once in a while!

Like someone else said, I would love it if I could just get my wife to pick up a bow let alone shoot like that.
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Post by: Jake Diebolt on July 30, 2012, 07:49:00 AM
If you a guy gets that worked up about a broken arrow, he obviously needs to start buying cheaper arrows...or maybe just grow up a bit. Sheesh.
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Post by: TomBow on July 30, 2012, 09:11:00 AM
It astounds me, the lack of respect shown to a woman that obviously is still there, in spite of years of dealing with his bull----, sharing the ever sacred shooting of the arrow, an act beyond words, and to be standing along side that horse's patoot??  Itty Bitty Bitter Baby Boy, sho can't call that dude a man.  Not by my definition anyway.  Unfortunately, sometimes we need a little reminder how NOT to treat another human being, so we don't forget.  Life is full of contrasts and sometimes you get to see the stupid acts of others.  Me, when my wife shoots with me,I tell her how good she's doing and if she were to bust one of my arrows, I'd have the freegin' thing BRONZED!

Seems like most of us trad folks hold ourselves to a higher standard.  Not to be elitist, just stating a fact.  

"Be good to others"--George Carlin, Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure.
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Post by: Ken Taylor on July 30, 2012, 09:21:00 AM
Poor woman.
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Post by: reddogge on July 30, 2012, 09:30:00 AM
Good for her. I hope she busts up a dozen more of his arrows this year.
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Post by: deaddoc4444 on July 30, 2012, 09:37:00 AM
VERY SAD indeed    I must have missed that I was by the practice course around that time.    Like was mentioned   when you have a spouse that takes in interest and will participate in one of your life passions its the greatest. WHY in the hell wold you ruin it with something like that .  Sounds like a creep that would   act that way on anything .
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Post by: moththerlode on July 30, 2012, 01:28:00 PM
Thanks for the marital advise , but after 28 years we know each other pretty well. But the fact is she could care less and can and will draw and shoot without ever breaking stride in talking and laughing with others in the group. She's there strictly for the social aspect. As for me.
I'm there just to make sure she has the arrows to make it through until the end of the day, or at least until she runs out of breath.


(Just think how good of a shot she could be if she had a little positive reinforcement once in a while!)
Title: Re: Temper Tantrum
Post by: Keith Langford on July 30, 2012, 05:42:00 PM
I started to walk up and tell her that was a great shot, but figured it would just make it worse for her in private. Allen I didnt stay long after this happened, weather,no power, my elbow just bummed me out, and this is my favorite shoot, God willing and elbow surgery success I will be back next year
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Post by: menatkin on July 30, 2012, 06:12:00 PM
Keith:  Best of luck with the elbow surgery.

As for the A-hole who doesn't know his place or manners, it makes me sick.  God bless that woman for putting up with his $hit, and may she go on to bust his shaft over and again.
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Post by: gvdocholiday on July 31, 2012, 08:01:00 AM
If I'd of witnessed that, there's about a 90% chance that my wife would have witnessed it as well....My wife's a loose cannon when it comes to stuff like that and there would have been a scene.
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Post by: Goshawkin on July 31, 2012, 08:37:00 AM
If that was my wife I would have gave her a big kiss and dragged her right down to a store to get a win for life scratch off ticket. Maybe she'd keep the luck going and we'd be breakin arrows on moose,elk,sheep,etc. instead of targets!  :goldtooth:
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Post by: Eric Krewson on July 31, 2012, 08:49:00 AM
I was in an indoor archery range one time while a friend was teaching his wife how to shoot. She bounced an arrow off the floor or wall(don't remember which), he retrieved the arrow and broke it over his knee while calling her an idiot.

I was dumbfounded and unfortunately speechless. He was a pretty nice guy but didn't relate to women very well.

We lost contact for a few years until he called me very upset that his wife had left him for another guy, no wonder.
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Post by: Swinestalker on July 31, 2012, 09:23:00 AM
Sounds like a real loser. I am lucky enough to have a wife and son that love to shoot and hunt. I relish their success far more than my own. He should have congratulated her and saved the arrows to display as a trophy.
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Post by: turkey522 on July 31, 2012, 09:39:00 AM
Everything has been said.He's just a a-hole.If it would do any good and she would use it,I would mail her a cast iron skillet if i had her addy.
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Post by: Bldtrailer on July 31, 2012, 01:56:00 PM
I know a place she should put her next
arrow>>>---> the sun doesn't shine there! How sad most of us wood love a love one to share our sport, he just   :banghead:  crushed her spirit and  BAD imgage for all male archers/ Her talint hopefully overcomes his stupidity
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Post by: Traxx on July 31, 2012, 02:20:00 PM
Shure Glad,i wasnt there.I woulda said somethin to him and he woulda said somethin back.It woulda gone back and fourth and eventually,Roadkill,woulda had to call my wife to bail me out.
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Post by: Frank V on July 31, 2012, 04:15:00 PM
I'd have taken a picture & saved those arrows.
My Wife had to quit shooting because of her shoulder. I really miss shooting with her.    :(    
He dosen't know what he has (had?)    :dunno:    
Frank
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Post by: hvyhitter on July 31, 2012, 05:51:00 PM
there are alot more horses asses in the world than there are horses...................
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Post by: menatkin on July 31, 2012, 06:01:00 PM
:deadhorse: