Victory is mine! I finally wore my wife down and now have permission to hang my bows in our room instead of the garage. I would have rather had them in the main area where people would see them. I have slowing been bringing them in and leaving them on my dresser. I told her they now have residency and tenant's rights. Next goal: A bow rack in the front room.
:thumbsup:
Gene
by the way we live in a small 24x32 Log Cabin [with a large bedroom and loft up stairs]
My bows are hanging on our bedroom wall. There's also two racks of arrows, a couple of antler mounts, several framed B&C and P&Y posters, my RMEF Life Member plaque, and a few framed sprint car racing pics/posters. Several times my wife has reminded me, "there's not one feminine thing in this bedroom." My usual reply is, "and there's not one masculine thing in the kitchen." That's usually when I get slapped upside the head.
:D
Mine are displayed prominently on the walls of our living room, there was never any question that they were going to be displayed proudly in my home. There can be no doubt from the moment you step into my place that a tradbow/hunting fanatic lives here. Hope to have a couple of new bear rugs for the couch in the next few months as well.
I keep mine locked in my gun room since my wife can count. Keeping them in the bedroom where the wife see's them everyday will just allow her to notice when they multiply.
Funny, Lechwe.
Just to let you know, you can lose to, I had all my racks and mount in the family at one time but I got some of them voted out, my 4 daughters and wife voted 5 to 1 in favor of reducing it down to 5 deer racks 1 antelope and two fish so I had to make a man room to put the rest in, thats what I get for having all girls.
also have em in my "huntin room" which is a extra bedroom converted to a man cave of sorts with heads/bows/ pics etc . but we also have a couple heads and a couple longbows displayed in the livin room... come on Bear heart.. its your house too !! LOL !! :biglaugh:
I just brought two mounts home from the taxidermy shop and was promptly pointed to the back office with them. I have since hung a bow rack, several pictures, a turkey gobbling on the roost mount, two turkey fans, an arrow rack, and my two deer heads in that room. Im out growing it and need to get a bigger space. Looks like turning the garage into a family room is my only chance.
Good job. Going slow is the key. You have to expose them gently to the idea, making them an everyday occurance. After awhile it will just be apart of the surroundings. :D I know a guy who took over his wifes walk-in closet for his archery stuff! He's gooood!
QuoteOriginally posted by Rooselk:
My bows are hanging on our bedroom wall. There's also two racks of arrows, a couple of antler mounts, several framed B&C and P&Y posters, my RMEF Life Member plaque, and a few framed sprint car racing pics/posters. Several times my wife has reminded me, "there's not one feminine thing in this bedroom." My usual reply is, "and there's not one masculine thing in the kitchen." That's usually when I get slapped upside the head.
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Rich,
The next time your wife says that to you, tell her that her femininity when she's in the bedroom outshines everything you have on the wall in your bedroom. ;) :)
Bill
:thumbsup: Wildman didn't get that old bumping heads with mama. Listen and learn young Skywalker
I got my better half to start shooting trad with me. I can now have as many as I want ,but hers goes on the top of the rack :) .Its worked with bowling,golf and pool. She even came home from a yard sale with a camo jon boat one time...
I need that fellows name Snag. he is officially my HERO.
My trick is to not hang them in display. I just prop em up in the corners.
If you are patient, loving, and kind she may reward you with a "Man Room" That is what I have and it is all mine none of her stuff allowed. LOL
My Man Room is the whole freakin' house. Sitting here, I can count about thirty bows. Two shoulder mounts. Three skulls. Loose antlers. About ten square feet of area taken up by arrows and shafting, another ten of junk, and a sheaf of river cane eight feet long. Three quarters of the sofa (rescued on its way to the dump twenty years ago) is taken up with a wooden Steal-Me rack that previously held guns, was put on my wall...oh. Five more bows. It was falling off the wall so I took it down, looked for a place to put it, and everything was taken except the sofa. This is in a space of about 200 square feet. And the feather burner is parked in front of the microwave.
So, when you come home after a hard day's chasin' bacon, grab a beer and meander back to the living room, and there is a place to sit...thank your lucky stars that you married that compulsive-obsessive-about-a-house-in-order normal-type female instead of me!
Now where did I set those broadheads down?
Killdeer :saywhat:
Killie, where were you back say 30 years ago? You sound just like what I was looking for!! :banghead: :goldtooth:
Gene
I used to have a Man Room. I was married, 21, and had two dogs no kids. I now have a two year old and adopting another one and will probably have one more after that.
I now have a man area in the garage. When I got kicked out of my man room the garage became my man room. Now kids stuff that we don't want to buy again fills it up. Thus the icy cold or blazing inferno, depending what time of year, man corner.
I know, Start the violin music. :(
30 years ago I had a rented room full of records and a mind full of mush. :rolleyes:
Killdeer
At least you found your way Killdeer. I Have the whole basement as my own sherwood forrest. I have found out when I have non-hunting friends over,they tend to admire the bows hanging on the cedar rack I made. They tend to ask questions and want to hold one in there hands. I have deer, bears, caribou, and other mounts and oddities in the room, but the bows seem to draw the most attention from some. To me they are just as nice to look at as great pieces of art. So why not display them proudly.
got nothing to add here... I'm relagated to the office in the downstairs (or should I say "the dumping ground"). Two family rooms, and not a stitch of my stuff. At best, I can only say, "Happy wife, happy life"......
QuoteOriginally posted by Nakohe:
If you are patient, loving, and kind she may reward you with a "Man Room" That is what I have and it is all mine none of her stuff allowed. LOL
Oh Honey I have some "stuff" in your man room you just have not found it yet....
QuoteOriginally posted by Kimber Rowan:
QuoteOriginally posted by Nakohe:
If you are patient, loving, and kind she may reward you with a "Man Room" That is what I have and it is all mine none of her stuff allowed. LOL
Oh Honey I have some "stuff" in your man room you just have not found it yet.... [/b]
Sounds like troubles brewing!
Anyway, I get to hang whatever I want....as long as the WITCH likes it!
Everything else gets sent to the shop....including me!
I tried again yesterday asking her to let me make a nice bow rack and hang it in the front room...she said no, go to the shop.
Its too cold in the winter and to hot in the summer to be hanging bows out there...she said sell them! :scared:
So, I get to keep them just not hanging out. I'm okay with it I guess. She lets me get whatever I want, I just don't get to show them off like I want.
Its a give and take marriage.....I give, she takes! :)
Been that way for almost 17yrs....we got a system! :)
QuoteOriginally posted by Killdeer:
My Man Room is the whole freakin' house. Sitting here, I can count about thirty bows. Two shoulder mounts. Three skulls. Loose antlers. About ten square feet of area taken up by arrows and shafting, another ten of junk, and a sheaf of river cane eight feet long. Three quarters of the sofa (rescued on its way to the dump twenty years ago) is taken up with a wooden Steal-Me rack that previously held guns, was put on my wall...oh. Five more bows. It was falling off the wall so I took it down, looked for a place to put it, and everything was taken except the sofa. This is in a space of about 200 square feet. And the feather burner is parked in front of the microwave.
So, when you come home after a hard day's chasin' bacon, grab a beer and meander back to the living room, and there is a place to sit...thank your lucky stars that you married that compulsive-obsessive-about-a-house-in-order normal-type female instead of me!
Now where did I set those broadheads down?
Killdeer :saywhat:
Kathy you sure do have a way with words :biglaugh: Thats funny stuff right there :D :D ;)
Dang, Ya'll are lucky. I'm still in the basement...not so bad though. Doc
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My man cave is down stairs and there it will stay says the wify! :biglaugh: Better then the shed I say...gotta compromise when married.
Doc, how do you get any work done with all that cool stuff crowding you? I could help you clean it out a little.
I've got exactly the opposite problem of most.
The wife won't leave my things alone, constantly moving things from one area to another.
Started with mounts in every room of the house: then they were all moved to the hallway. Now they are endlessly shifting from hallway to office.
Now have a collection of indigenous bows from South America and Asia along with arrows and quivers in the Hallway. These walls also hold 7 deer mounts, a 28 year old autographed pic of Ben Lee, My 1988 PBS Regular acceptance letter, (with a Reg member patch, custom framed with authentic knapped flint arrow heads. FRAMED BY MY WIFE, to congratulate me on being accepted.) In addition to 3 African european mounts, a hat collection and 2 swing scythes.
The office has 1 recently done shoulder mount,( the one in avatar), a Wildebeast, Impala, Blesbok, Wild Boar, and Gator, all skulls. Plus a Snow Goose and various other waterfowl. And 1 Picture of Ernest Hemingway with a marlin he caught I believe in the Bahamas.
This is also where the bows are kept, however per her orders they must be kept in closet. (They are on racks), because she knows they are probably worth more than I claim to have paid for them. (Smart Women) And she doesn't think advertising there whereabouts is such a good idea! At present there are 6 on the wall. There is also another 27 in a climate controlled storage unit, along with other things of mine which she believes take up to much valuable space in "her" house. She never seems to notice when the bows in the office are changed out with ones from the storage. Although has has asked what the empty pvc tubes in storage are for, and why they seem to multiply.
So I guess I can't complain, She gets the whole house and I get what she designates to me as she sees fit. I can live with that, even if things are constantly moved around. :thumbsup:
Love your cave Doc.
Killie you are a hoot girl. You have such a way with words. I love your posts.